I've been married for 21 years and did not change my name. I've never been questioned on it, although my husband has endured years of grief about it. We hyphenated the kids so that they could be more like their Hispanic heritage and my daughter's not too crazy about her super long name and how confused the masses are by it. But the government has never questioned. We have had contracts for a house written up wrong and had to get them changed, though. 'two single people' *snorts*

I think a copy of your SS card should be enough. Although I'd hate to have to send that in the mail. Seems really odd to me. Maybe you could request that a supervisor phone you? *shakes head*

And, I cannot wait for that movie, so I'm not looking at the links!
*hugs*
WN