okay, if lj has told you that i've unfriended you in the past day or so, noooooo. it's either them being stupid, or me being stupid. thank god one lovely person just mentioned it to me or i'd never have known. i really don't do flist cuts unless someone unfriends me first; then i return it out of respect. so... if you've gotten such a notice on my behalf, please let me know so i can add you back!